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“Think and Grow Rich” is THE Guide to Generating the Thoughts and Actions That Lead to Success

Most of my book reviews offer a summary of a book’s contents so you have an overview of the main ideas it contains. I’m afraid I can’t do that with this book, because I would be doing it, and its author, a disservice. Insights pervade every page so densely that many of the themes it contains are substantial enough to merit their own books to fully explore them.
We could think of this book as the tip of the iceberg that makes us aware of both:
  • the power of our thoughts, and
  • the potential we have within ourselves, to redirect our thinking and actions in order to change our circumstances.
Hill’s personal proof of these concepts was derived through comparative observation of the successful to the unsuccessful people he’d been exposed to over the years, starting with Andrew Carnegie. Hill often quotes Carnegie in the book because he is the man who inspired Hill to dedicate much of his life to exploring and communicating the concepts of how managing our own thoughts and energy can be life-changing.
The following are three themes in the book that most resonate with me:
  1. The Power of Thought
  2. The Power of the Subconscious
  3. The Power of Purpose

#1. The Power of Thought

We are what we think. Our thoughts affect how we see the world and how we see ourselves. As a result, our thoughts have a great deal of impact on how we feel and on how much energy we have to deal with a required action or situation. Our thoughts can also make us more or less observant of the things, circumstances and people around us. In short, our thoughts affect our behavior and our behavior affects how the world responds to us. Hill goes as far as stating that this extends to the material world:
Thoughts = Things

#2. The Power of the Subconscious

Where do you get your best ideas? I can almost guarantee you that it’s not while you’re at work. We usually get our best ideas when we’re not consciously thinking about the problem we’re trying to solve or the idea we’re trying to come up with.
Eureka moments hardly ever occur while we’re “working hard”, but rather when we’re “hardly working”.
Unfortunately, our way of life seems to invite us to ignore both the power of the subconscious and the breathing room we need to give it. In order to feed our subconscious, we need to give it:
  • the raw materials it needs to work through (including a clear picture of what problem or opportunity we’re trying to address),
  • little-to-no time pressure, and
  • no attention whatsoever, as it does its work.
When we’re busy working long hours, multi-tasking and burying ourselves in endless to-do lists, we lose the connection to our subconscious. When we take time to rest, play, engage in conversation with others (including mastermind groups), learn from and about the experiences of others, we make room for the powerful subconscious to work its magic. The magic? To make connections to ideas that offer solutions we could never have come up with consciously.
You cannot entirely control your subconscious mind, but you can voluntarily hand over to it any plan, desire, or purpose which you wish transformed into concrete form. (pg. 198)

#3. The Power of Purpose

Deep down, we know what we want and need to accomplish over the long-term. It might not be crystal clear, but we have a good idea of the direction we want to pursue. Unfortunately, rationalization, self-justification, avoidance, fear and doubt leads us to second guess it or explain it away, to our peril.
People who do not succeed have one distinguishing trait in common. They know all the reasons for failure, and have what they believe to be air-tight alibis to explain away their own lack of achievement. (pg. 249)
When we focus on what we know we need to do, we can more easily establish an action plan and forge ahead. We feel driven, alive, passionate. We have the energy to invest in ourselves and others. We have the energy to grow as a person. We learn what we need to know to be successful, not what others say we should know. We ignore the naysayers and objectors. We’re curious and engaged.
Purpose as a Guide = A Fulfilling Life
And yes, the author does talk about money, and offers many concrete tools and references to allow us to be increasingly introspective and take explicit action. But I think we can all appreciate the broader insights shared above also serve to help us in that aspect of our lives. For more on the money concepts within it, I would suggest reading Chapter 2 titled “Desire”, “The Thirty-One Major Causes of Failure” in the middle of the book and the “Fear of Poverty” section toward the end of the book.

Bottom Line

Despite its title, this influential classic is about far more than being successful with money. It’s about mastering the self so that we may be as successful as we choose to be.
Where you can find the book: Amazon @ $8.99
Where you can find the author: www.naphill.org
Other suggested books of this type: “The Secret” by Rhonda Byrnes.
Books on topics and research related to this book:
  • Scarcity vs. abundance mindset: “Scarcity” by Sendil Mullainathan & Eldar Shafir and “The Millionaire Mind” by Thomas J. Stanley.
  • Self-deception: “Predictably Irrational” by Dan Ariely and “Mistakes Were Made (But Not By Me)” by Carol Tavris and Elliot Aronson.
  • Meaning and purpose: “Tribes” by Seth Godin, “The Go-Giver” by Bob Burg & John David Mann, “Start with Why” by Simon Sinek, “Man’s Search for Meaning“, “The Element” by Ken Robinson and “Born Standing Up” by Steve Martin.
  • Forming and changing habits: “The Power of Habit” by Charles Duhigg, “Rich Habits” by Thomas C. Corley, “The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People” by Stephen R. Covey and “The Power of Full Engagement” by Jim Loehr and Tony Schwartz.
  • Education: “The End of Education” by Neil Postman and “Out of Our Minds” by Ken Robinson.
  • The inexplicable nature of the subconscious and its connection to the unknown: “The War of Art” by Steven Pressfield and “The Alchemist” by Paulo Coelho.
  • Desire (professional achievement and material wealth): “Deep Work” by Cal Newport and “Enough” by John C. Bogle.
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I am here giving the crux of Who Will Cry When You Die. The number written before each point represents the chapter number. 


When you were first born, you cried while the world rejoiced. Live your life in such a way that when you die, the world cries while you rejoice.

Mahatma Gandhi noted: “Be the change you want to see most in your world.”

The golden thread of a highly meaningful life is self-discipline.

The tougher you are on yourself, the easier life will be on you.


7. Thinking about all those things that you wish never happened to you is actually blocking all the things you want to happen from entering your life.

You become what you think about all day long, it makes no sense to worry about past events or 
mistakes unless you want to experience them for the second time.

Have the bravery to try something and then fail than never to have tried it.

Booker T. Washington said, “I’ve learned that success is to be measured not so much by the position that one has reached in life as by the obstacles he has overcome while trying to succeed.”

12. Chita burns the dead while Chinta burns the living.

15. A saying of the ancient Romans, “means sana in the corpse sano,” Latin for, “In a sound body rests a solid mind.”

Exercise will not only add life to your years, it could add years to your life.

Life’s greatest pleasures are often the life’s simplest ones.

16. Thoreau said, “It is not enough to be busy, so are the ants. The question is what are you so busy about?”

18. It is the quality rather than the quantity of sleep that matters most.

Tips to help sleep more deeply:
·         Don’t rehearse activities of your day while sleeping.
·         Don’t eat after 8 P.M.
·         Don’t watch the news before you go to sleep.
·         Don't read in bed.

19. Pain is a teacher and failure is the highway to success.

It is during life most trying times that we discover who we really are and the fullness of the strength that lies within us.

20. Willian Jones observed, “We don’t laugh because we are happy, we are happy because we laugh.”

21. Life is nothing more than a game of numbers – the more risks you take, the more rewards you will receive or in the words of Sophocles, “Fortune is not on the side of the faint-hearted”

Stop spending your days searching for security and start spending your time pursuing opportunity.

Theodore Roosevelt: “It is not the critic who points out how the strong men stumbled, or where the doer of deeds could have done better. The credit goes to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust, sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs, and comes short again and again, who knows the great enthusiasm, the great devotions and spends himself in a worthy cause, who at best knows in the end the triumphs of high achievements and who at worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his place will never be with those cold and timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat.

26. The person who tries to do everything ultimately achieves nothing.

The real secret to getting things done is to know what things need to be left undone.

28. Knowing how to read but failing to do so puts in exactly the same position as the person who cannot read but wants to.

31. “A problem well stated is a problem half-solved,” said Charles Kettering.

32. “Wisdom is knowing what to do next, skill is knowing how to do it, and virtue is doing it,” observed David Starr Jordan.

Knowledge is only potential power. It transforms itself into actual power the moment you decisively act on it.

The smallest of actions is always better than the boldest of intentions.

38. Words are like arrows, once released they are impossible to retrieve.

41. “He who asks may be a fool for five minutes. He who doesn’t is a fool for the lifetime,” goes the wise Chinese proverb.

Somerset Maughem: “It’s a funny thing about life, if you refuse to accept anything but the best, you very often get it.”

44. Norman Cousins once noted: “The tragedy of life is not death, but what we let die inside of us while we live.”

Too many people spend more time focusing on a weakness rather than developing their strengths.

 48. If you set goals, the actions you take will be based on your life’s mission rather than on your day-to-day moods.

49. Remember the rule of 31.

50. When you hear bear a grudge against someone, it is almost as if you carry that around on your back with you. He drains you out of your energy, enthusiasm and peace of mind.

56. Persian Proverb: I wept because I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no legs.

62. Blaise Pascal wrote: “All man’s miseries derive from not being able to sit quietly in a room alone.”
63. Time is a priceless commodity. It slips through your hands like grains of sand, and the time live life greatly is not tomorrow but today.

67. If you follow the crowd, the place you will most likely end up at is the exit.

Emerson: “It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion; It is easy in solitude to live after our own, but the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.

70. At the end of the day, the only thing we can take with us is our memory of all those great life experiences that add meaning to our lives.

Dale Carnegie wrote, “We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden beyond the horizon instead of enjoying the roses that are blooming outside our windows today.”

 71. What makes relationships, communities and countries great are not the things that we have in common but the differences that make us unique.

75. An old saying goes, “We see the world not as it is as we are.”

76. Francis Bacon said, “Some books are to be tasted, others to be swallowed, and some few to be chewed and digested.”

81. The telephone is there for your convenience, not for the convenience of your callers.

84. Sleep less.
Thomas Edison: “Sleep is like a drug, take too much at a time and it makes you dopey. You lose time, vitality, and opportunities.”
We often sleep as an escape from reality during difficult times. Fatigue is often a mental creation that stems from doing things you do not like to do.

87. Fake it till you make it. Pretend to be the kind of person who you wish to be.

88. The British Statesman Benjamin Disraeli once said, “Nurture your mind with great thoughts, for you will not go any higher than you think”

91. One of the most wonderful things about time is that you cannot waste it in advance. No matter how much time you have squandered in the past, the next hour that comes your way will be perfect, unspoiled and ready for you to make the very best of it.

93. L.F. Phelan once said, “Youth is not a time of life; it is a state of mind. People grow old only by deserting their ideals and outgrowing the consciousness of youth. Years wrinkle the skin, but to give up enthusiasm wrinkles the soul……. You are as old as your fear, your doubt, and your despair. The way to keep young is to keep your faith young. Keep your self-confidence young. Keep your hope young.


101. Happiness is not a place you reach but a state you create.
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नेपाल सानो देश भएता पनि एउटा सानो संसारको रुपमा मानिन्छ । नेपाल अधिराज्यको यस्तो बनोट छ कि हिमाली क्षेत्र, पहाडी र तर्राई क्षेत्रमा विभिन्न जाति जनजातिहरुको बसोबासोमा जसरी बिभिन्नता छ त्यसरीनैं नेपालको पूर्वदेखि पश्चिमसम्मको माटोको अवस्था यस्तोछ कि यहाँ अनेकौं किसिमको हावापानी भएकाले विभिन्न प्रकारका खाध्य पदार्थहरुको उत्पादन हुने गर्दछ । यहाँको हावापानी यस्तो छ कि बाहै्र महिना काम गर्न सकिन्छ । संसारका अनेकौं देशहरुमा जे जति उत्पादन हुन्छ थोरबहूत यही भूभागमा उत्पादन हुनेगर्दछ । कैयौं नदी र सयौं खोला र झरनाहरुले गर्दा यसभूभागलाई प्रकृतिको देनको रुपमा लिइन्छ । नेपाललाई पानी नैं पानीको देश हो । नेपालको पानीलाई राम्ररी सिंचाई र विद्युत उत्पादनमा सदुपयोग गर्न सकियो भने नेपाल खाद्यान्नको भण्डार हुन सक्दछ । नेपालको पानीबाट ८ करोड कि.वा.भन्दा बढी विद्युत उत्पादन गरेर आफ्नो देश र छिमेकी देशहरुमा हरभरा बनाउन सकिन्छ । जङ्गलै जङ्गलले सजिसजाउ नेपालभित्र अनेकौं किसिमका जनावरहरु, ८०० भन्दा बडी प्रकारका चरा चुरिङ्गीहरु र विश्वमा दुर्लभ मानिएका जरिबुटीहरु प्रसस्त यहाँ पाइन्छन् । हर प्रकारले प्रकृतिले नेपाललाई साथ दिएको छ । कैयौ विदेशी यात्रीहरु भन्छन्-'यो ठाँउ संसारभरमा सबभन्दा सुन्दर स्थान हो ।
विश्वका हरेककुनामा आप्रवासी नेपालीहरुको नेपालप्रतिको प्रेमको कारण, उच्च शिक्षा हासिल गर्न र कामको खोजीमा विश्वका हरेक राष्ट्रमा पुगेका नेपालीहरुले नेपालीपन कायम राख्न सकेकाले नेपाली राष्ट्रियताको मौलिकताले चौतर्फी पहिचान स्थापित गर्न सकेको छ । हाम्रो देश सानो भए पनि यहाँ धेरै थरीका जाति छौं । यहाँ कुनै पनि एक जातिलाई होच्याएर र बिर्सेर नेपालको राष्ट्रियता पुरा हुँदैन । हाम्रो देशमा विभिन्न जातिहरुको साझा नेपालको सांस्कृतिक राष्टि्यता बनेको छ । नेपालमा हिन्दु, वैदिक र बौधको समष्टीबाट नेपाली संस्कृतिको सिर्जना भएको छ । सहिष्णुता, सभ्यता र संस्कृतिको हिसाबमा हाम्रो संस्कृति उत्कृष्ट छ । हामी संस्कृतिका धनी छौं । अनेकौं जातिहरु मिलेर एक साझा नेपाली जातिमा एकीकृत हुनसकेको नेपालको राष्ट्रियता टपक्क फूलेको छ जस्को कारणले नेपाली संस्कृतिको सुबास विश्वभरी फैलिएकोछ । हामी नेपालमा पचासौं मात्री भाषा बोल्दछौं, यी संम्पूर्ण मात्रृ भाषाहरुलाई जीवित राख्न अन्तरजातीय सर्म्पर्क भाषाको रुपमा नेपाली भाषा साझा भाषाको रुपमा स्थापित भएको छ । नेपाल हिन्दु अधिराज्यको रुपमा विश्वब्यापी हुन गएता पनि धार्मिक मामलामा विश्वका धर्मनिरपेक्ष राष्ट्रहरु भन्दा नेपाल धेरै उदार छ । यही देशमा मुसलमान, क्रिस्चियन् र अन्य धर्मावलम्वीहरु पनि आफ्ना धर्मकर्म मान्नमा स्वतन्त्र छन् । तर पनि कतिपय नेपालीले नेपाली राष्ट्रियताको सोदावाजी गरेर स्वार्थ पूर्ति गर्न उदत्त छन् ।

नेपालको राष्ट्रियता भनेको एक भावनात्मक मान्यता मात्र होइन । यो एक क्रियात्मक मनोदशा हो । भूभागले मात्र राष्ट्रियताको प्रतिनिधित्व गर्दैन । नेपालको राष्ट्रियताका जग तथा आधारहरु के के हुन् त्यसको मूल्यांकन नगरी कसैलाई चित्त नबुझ्दैमा स्थापित मान्यताहरुलाई विस्थापित गर्न खोजएमा राष्ट्रियता माथि प्रश्न चिन्ह खडा हुन सक्छ । चाहे हिन्दु अधिराज्य होस् वा राजसंस्था वा नेपाली भाषा होस् युगौंदेखि स्थापित भएका मान्यताहरुलाई विवादमा ल्याइयो भने दिएर नेपालीहरुको एकता टुट्न सक्छ । हामी नेपालीहरुको राष्ट्रि्यता यति सम्वेदनशील छ कि हाम्रा स्थापित भएका मान्यताहरुमा कुनै विवाद उठाउने काम भयो भने हाम्रो राष्ट्रिय एकतामा खतरा आउन सक्छ । त्यसैले हामीले राष्ट्रियताको विषयमा सँधै सहिष्णु र सम्वेदनशील भएर मात्र बोल्ने हुनपर्दछ ।
नेपालको राष्ट्रियताको कडी भनेको चीन र भारत हो । यस्मा पनि भारतसँग नेपालको सांस्कृतिक एवं धार्मिक पारस्पारिकताका कारणले सौहार्दताको बातावरणमा बसेर राष्ट्रिय स्वतन्त्रता र र्सार्वभौमिकता बचाएर राख्न सक्नुपर्दछ । नेपाल-भारत बिचको सौहार्दतालाई कुठराघात गराउन केही नेपाली र भारतीयहरु षडयन्त्रमा संलग्न हुन पनि सक्छन् । यस्ता षडयन्त्रबाट दुबै देशको सरकार जनताहरु सचेत हुन सक्नु पर्दछ । हुनता नेपाल एउटा भूपरिवेष्टित राज्य हो । चीन र भारत यी दुइ ठूला राष्ट्रहरुको च्यापबाट जोगिएर नेपालले आफ्नो अस्तित्व कायम् राख्नुछ । नेपालको राष्ट्रियता भनेको आफ्नो अस्मिता, स्रोत-सम्पदाहरु बचाएर, संतुलित भएर, हिडनु हो । यसको लागि हामी नेपालीहरु आफै सक्षम र सजक नभई राष्ट्रियतालाई समृद्ध गराउन सकिदैन । राष्ट्रियता भन्ने कुरा अर्कोले बचाइदिने होइन, आफैले बचाउने कुरा हो । अर्कोले सहयोग दिन सक्छ तर बचाइदिदैन । नेपाल अहिले गरीब छ किनकि हामी नेपालीहरुलेनैं नेपाललाई प्रकृतिले दिएका मौलिक स्रोत र सम्पदाहरुलाई योजनावद्धरुपले परिचालन गर्न ढिला गरिरहेका छौं ।
नेपाल र भारतको वीचमा हिन्दु देवस्थल, धामहरुको गरिमाले नेपाल-भारतका जनता एकअर्कामा सम्मान गर्छन् । नेपाल कहिले पनि पराधीन भएन । तिब्बतमा अवस्थित कैलास मानसरोवर विश्वका हिन्दुहरुको सम्मानीत धाम हो । चीनमा नेपालका भृकुटी र अरनिकोका पदचिन्ह र बौर्द्धधर्मको उद्गम राष्ट्रकोरुपमा नेपाल र नेपाली जनताको र्सार्वभौम सवतन्त्रताको चीनले कदर गर्दै आएकोछ । त्यसरी नैं नेपालीहरुको स्वाभिमानप्रति भारतले सम्मान गर्ने गरेको पनि छ । चीन र भारत जस्ता ठूलो राष्ट्रहरुले नेपाललाई मान्यता गर्नु पर्ने कुरा सितिमिति होइन । यसरी हामी नेपालीहरुले पाएको जन्मजात स्वतन्त्रताको इज्जत र प्रतिष्ठालाई कायम गर्न सक्नु पनि हाम्रो कर्तव्य हो । सम्पूर्ण हिन्दु संस्कृतिमा हिमालयलाई देवभूमि मानेको छ । भारतीय हिन्दुहरुको लागि नेपाल सँधै प्रेरणाको स्रोत बनेकोछ । नेपाललाई गौरव छ कि भारतको धर्म संकटको बेलामा हिन्दुहरुको आश्रयदाता पनि नेपाल रहिआएकोछ । भारतमा हिन्दुहरुका लागि हिमालयको आकर्षा पशुपतिनाथ र मुछिन्द्रनाथको दर्शन एउटा चीर आकांक्षा भइनैरहन्छ । नेपाललाई थाहा छकि विश्वको प्रत्येक हिन्दु नेपाललाई स्वतन्त्र र्सार्वभौंम हिन्दु राज्यको रुपमा हेरेर आनन्दित हुन्छन् । सम्पूर्ण हिन्दुहरुको लागि आश्रयस्थल बनी बाँच्ने प्रयत्न नेपालको रहिरहने छ । (२०२१ साल माघ २१ गते भारतको नागपुर भेलामा राजा महेन्द्र)
नेपाल र भारत वीचमा धार्मिक र सांस्कृतिक कुरा र पानीको सवालमा उदार भएर दुबै देशलाई उपयोगी हुनसक्ने नीतिको अवलम्वन गरिनु पर्दछ । राष्ट्रियता प्रति मानिसहरुको झुकाव घट्दै गयो भने देशभित्र नैतिकताको ह्रास आउँछ, धर्म संस्कृतिमा विवाद उठ्न थाल्छ, अराजकत्ता बढछ । नेपाल अहिले संकटमा छ । नेपालमा राजनीतिक नेताहरुमा राष्ट्रियता प्रति सम्वेदनशील हुन नसकेकाले नेपालको प्राकृतिक र सांस्कृतिक पहिचानहरु विवादमा परेका छन् । स्वदेश तथा विदेशमा बसेका नेपालीहरुले आपmनो मात्रृभूमिको रक्षार्थ सम्वेदनशील भएर अगाडि बढ्नु पर्ने बेलाछ । हाम्रो कसैसँग भेदभाव छैन । राजनीतिक विवादका कारणले नेपाली राष्ट्रियता र पहिचानको चिरहरण हुनुहुन्न । हामीले सबै मित्रराष्ट्रसँग समान संवन्ध कायम गरेर आपसी फूट भन्दा एकतामा आवद्ध भएर हामी नेपालीहर सवदेश विदेशमा जहाँ भए पनि राष्ट्रियताको सवालमा एक हुनसकौं ।
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